Wednesday, August 11, 2010

Losing Interest???

Ever experience dull sex or your partner stop having interest in having sex with you?

A few things you might want to look into, lacking of foreplay, the guy cum too fast, has it become too routine( no more surprises), no more sudden rush of adrenaline in your sex life, having erectile dysfunction with the same partner.

Tips:-
- talking to your partner abt sex in a gentle manner; whats your likes and dislikes? (this might open a whole new door to your relationship as for some this is the most sensitive and non talk abt topic in every long term commited relationship)

- listen ( the most tiny signal given out by your partner during sex is actually the most important signal,i.e:- gesture, moan, tone of voice, stopping of breath , can indicate what you are doing is right or wrong or wheather your partner likes it or not)

- trying something new ( some ppl are embarress or feel discomfort in trying something new with their partner; i.e:- female licking asshole of a guy(FYI ssome guys like it), licking of underarms of the girl, or a different position which is not the normal ones that you always do; a trick to it is while during sex lead your partner to something new you want to try and you will find immediate response to that)

- too routine? ( break the routine of having sex, give her or give him some surprises that they least expect but make sure as you go along,read the signals from your partner whether they want to continue or not, trying doing at other places other than your bedroom, plan a one night stay at a nice hotel send her some flowers before that (cheesy!! but it works))

- talk to her...guys listen here ( sometimes the girl are reluctant to have sex with you after a time because they might be facing some medical problems;ie-infections(it can be caused by unsanitary saliva due to what you just ate, stress from work, lack of sleep or even food intake) so its no big deal but you need to talk to your partner and be more sensitive cause they will feel embaress to reveal what is going on with them, so guys you need to be sensitive and caring abt that)

- use your imagination... cosplay for both (dig deep into your partners fantasy,ie:- men in tux(the james bond look), role playing)

be open and talk about it, you will be surprise what you find...

share your experience in the comments....!!!
we'd love to get your feedback

Sign off,
Mr.S

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